Do you know those people who always look effortlessly put together? Running their hand through a perfect mane of hair as their pressed white button-up shirt flutters gently in the breeze, grazing the fabric of perfectly fitted jeans? You know those people, yes? We all would love to roll out of bed as those people.
Unfortunately, if you are like me, it takes an effort to look “put together”. What if you want comfort and style but want it fast. And without an iron? You want casual without daggy. Trust me, I’m your girl, this style has me written all over it.
I love uncrushable, re-wearable, layer-able, and easy clothes that are on-trend without being trendy and most of all; I want to be comfortable. So after a couple of days of search terms indicting you ladies want the same thing, I thought to give the people what they want. My guide to casual dressing that isn’t daggy, and here we are.
Make it uncrushable
Fabrics that wrinkle require endless precise ironing aren’t your friend. If it can’t be given a wash, a flick and hung up to dry, then it’s too hard. Sure, improve your laundry processes to decrease the crease, but we all know the items I am talking about when push comes to shove. Linen, I’m looking at you.
Choose one item to ‘dress it up.’
I love the slouch pant trend. The slouchier, the better, but the thing is, it really can look like you made zero effort at all unless you dress them up a little. A little pull up of the leg or a half tuck here or heeled boots there. It can mean a statement necklace, a killer jacket, or a pop of show-stopping lipstick for some people. Consider the overall look and step it up one.
Stripes are REALLY a girl’s best friend.
I don’t care what they say when it comes to casual cool think stripes. Stripes are simple, chic and elegant. Next time you reach for a plain coloured top, swap it out with a simple boat-neck stripe t-shirt, and you’ll feel like a million bucks. The same can be said for a simple stripe scarf or a pair of ballet flats. Amp with the ‘I tried” factor with stripes.
Fit is everything
Daggy clothes are daggy because they are threadbare, probably a little saggy in the bum and probably have stains on them. The style gods can forgive most sins, but the fit of an item can change EVERYTHING. When I wear the Afterglow tee as it was designed, it is casual, oversized and comfy, but wear it a couple of sizes smaller and tucked in, the whole look changes.
Consider the fit of your clothes. Try on a range of sizes and see what looks best on your body. It’s time you ignored those numbers on the tags anyway. It’s all about cut and style. I own clothing in sizes 16-26 that I regularly wear in my wardrobe, and I am a pretty standard size 22 across the board. Do you get how ridiculous it is to get caught up in a number? Wear the clothes that fit, and you’ll take your look for daggy to casual cool in a moment.
Flats, Wedges & Ankle Boots
This is my shoe A-Team. Stilettos are awesome, thongs {flip-flops?} are the boss, but as some people tell me, they are more beach than fashion {boo} and killer boots have their place. Still, when it comes to casual cool, these three are THE ONLY shoes you need: a versatile, well-fitting ballet flat, a simple suede wedge and a medium heeled ankle boot. I challenge you to find an outfit that you couldn’t wear with one of these three. A-Team, you hear me?
Get excited about your style.
It’s fun to get dressed; it really is. Take a moment to experiment with what you have. Wear them a little differently from how you would have before. I put together outfits on hangers all the time when an idea comes to me. Sure not all of them work out {trying too hard happens ALL the time over here – HA} but sometimes they do. Play, have a few ideas.
You don’t need much
I know, stop laughing, you’re probably all rolling your eyes as I say this, but you really don’t need much in your wardrobe to make this look work. Ask anyone who has seen my wardrobe. Liv even said that she was quote “disappointed” when she first saw my wardrobe. There’s not much there. I don’t own that many clothes. More than some women, sure, but everything in my wardrobe is there because it gets worn.
Is this a good time to mention my eBook, that old chestnut, may help you on this one? Clean out, clean up and build a stylish wardrobe on a budget. That’s the promise. So if you’re sitting here thinking, OMG, I can’t even deal with my wardrobe {I was looking at mine this weekend thinking, oh yuck, I’ve worn everything to death} then maybe it’s time for a spring clean. You really don’t need that much.
I realised that I could have gone on and on with my tips for an easier, more comfortable and generally wearable wardrobe of clothes, but this post was long enough. You need to get out there now and experiment. Try new things, try a style you never thought you would, and most of all, keep it casual. Style is meant to be fun; you should have some.
Let me know your MUST SHARE tip about casual but not daggy dressing. Do you have one? Or are you the perfect creature discussed in the first paragraph that we are all in awe of? That’s fine too, tell us HOW. Haha.
Hi! I’m Melissa Walker Horn. Around here, they call me Suger. I’m the Chief Blogger and doer of all the things here at Suger Coat It. Blogging since 1901; I love a casual ootd, taking photos, and writing about things that irk or inspire me. I love wine and cheese, long days at the beach and spending time with my family. I make stuff for the internet over at Chalkboard Digital. You know, living the sweet life.
I’ve been dreaming lately of a casual, monochromatic wardrobe that can be accessorized with colour – we’ll see how that goes!
I don’t remember the last time I used an iron, so that’s one thing.
Ahhh honey, that’s a dream of mine too. Irons be gone.
I was only disappointed because I wanted to borrow lots of stuff! I could have taken home half that room- but then left you with not much to use! 😉 xx
True, very true. I try to tell people that I don’t have that many clothes and they just don’t beleive me. Haha.
The everyday casual look is MY THING 😛
I lead a pretty casual life, so I don´t get to dress up often. My trick is to have a closet full of casual clothes, but most of them with something that makes them on trend (combining different fabrics or prints). That makes it easier for me to put together a nice outfit without giving it much thought. I just add a piece of jewerly or a scarf and I´m ready to go.
Really taking a hard look at my closet and leaving only the things that fit my body and my lifestyle right now made my life much easier (or at least the “getting dressed” part of my life, ha).
It’s worth the time and effort to go throught everything. I put everything on and critic it hard in the mirror. If I don’t love it, it goes. Be brutal. Embrace the cut and run theory. Haha.
Over the past year I have really embraced the fit not size idea of buying clothes and let me tell you it is a winner! No one knows what size you have on anyway and if they are inclined to ask, punch them in the neck lol! Joking! =)
Mel it’s SO true, I have never once given a thought to size on my clothes as long as they fit. Like you said, who’s looking? Your butt is as wide as it is no matter what that the number says. There’s no hiding THAT. Haha.
Ahahaha yep exactly, except for me it’s my thighs are as wide as they are regardless of what size I’m wearing! Lol! =)
Yes indeedie.
Loved this post, so right, you don need much, some great fititng, good quality pieces that you can mix and match to give you new looks, take one tee, tuck it in, tie it in a knit, wear it belted, or loose, theres 4 different outfits in one look and great accessories can change the total look of any outfit….
Thanks KP. It’s so true. It’s the key to my entire wardrobe.
Any recommendation on what to do with clothes in your wardrobe that you dont need? How to on sell them the easy way? My wardrobe NEEDS a good clean out and I abhor the thought of throwing my beautiful clothes out just because they dont suit me or my lifestyle any longer
I sell them through my Facebook page now but for years I sold on eBay and to friends in my area. There’s no easy solution, if you want to sell them it’s a whole world of stuffing around. Haha. But think of the monies to reinvest! And actually, there’s a whole section in my eBook about reselling, recycling and reusing old items… Just sayin. 😉