A new year is almost upon us, my friends. And as most of you know I’m a planner. So, it’s time for my to set goals for the year ahead. Setting goals can be as simple or as complicated as you make it. One year I simply had one phrase “Make Yourself Proud” as my goal for the year. But if you want to get a little more complicated. If you wanted to plan things out a little more deeply. Then do I have a plan for you? Come at me, right? Exciting. Drag out a fresh notebook, crack the spine if it has one {mmmm, stationary!} and get ready to answer the following for yourself. Do it in one sitting if you can. Take the time and really get excited about what could be coming up for you next year.
Ready to set goals for the new year? Let’s do this thing!
- Did you set goals, have a word for the year or make a plan last year?
- Yes or no?
- How did that work out for you?
- If you went free-range without a plan, describe how you feel about that.
- How was last year awesome?
- In what way was last year SO not awesome?
- What are three things you enjoyed about last year and would like more of this year?
- What are three things you didn’t enjoy last year and would like less of this year?
Now make sure you are on a completely new page.
Just in case you get the urge to tear out ‘last year’ and toss it away later never to be seen again.
Then answer the following questions;
- What are three things you would like to achieve for yourself this year?
- Break those three things down a little further into what that REALLY looks like. Get visual, describe it, doodle on the page, do anything that reminds you of how you’d achieve that, by what date, who will help you and what you’ll need to do, change and let go of to make it.
- What are three things are you giving up this year? And why.
- Get really detailed about why you’re giving up, why it was important enough to include here and who will be party of it all coming together for you.
For the questions below be detailed. Say as much as you want to, draw some cute pictures, cut and paste, whatever. Take some time to really dream, go a little nuts and whatever you do include something that you think would be pretty darn tricky to pull off in one year. Dream big my pretties. 😉
- What are your family goals?
- What are your health and wellness goals?
- What are your financial goals?
- What are your work goals?
- What are your goals for improving your life and the lives of those around you?
- Describe yourself at the end of the year. Who are you, what do you have, what do you look and feel like. Who is there with you, what have you experienced, done, and achieved. Who is this year?
Now for some of you it’s going to be hard to really let loose doing this exercise and set goals that excite you. Maybe there’s been one too many crap years filled with disappointment and sadness. Maybe you just think it’s all a bunch of woo woo nonsense. Whatever it is, I double dare you to put that aside for as long as it takes you to write all this in your notebook. Leave it in the corner, it’ll be there waiting if you want to pick it back up. The good news is, you might not want to. Not if you leave your heart on that notebook page.
And then, my friends, this coming year will be whatever you say it will be. Look back on the second and third sections when you can. Don’t worry if you don’t. Just set about living your life and enjoying it. It’s funny how these things work. Take this simple challenge this year and you’ll see. Goal setting is cake. Easy peasy.
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Hi! I’m Melissa Walker Horn. Around here, they call me Suger. I’m the Chief Blogger and doer of all the things here at Suger Coat It. Blogging since 1901; I love a casual ootd, taking photos, and writing about things that irk or inspire me. I love wine and cheese, long days at the beach and spending time with my family. I make stuff for the internet over at Chalkboard Digital. You know, living the sweet life.
Great advice there. I already know the 3 things I want in 2014 but I need to get them down on paper for sure ;-). I usually use these free templates from Brian Mayne to do my goal mapping http://www.liftinternational.com/free-stuff/index.html. They are quite fun to do after a few glasses of vino lol.
forgot to mention you need to sign up to a newsletter to get access to the free templates, a bit of a pain, but worth it :-).
Awesome! Thank you. I love these sort of things. And don’t mind a sign up newsletter at all. I’m not afraid of the unsubscribe button. 😉
So organised Mel!! I really need to sit down and work out what I want from my blog in 2014 i think. It’s coming along but it’s time to work out where I’m headed and how I’m getting there I think! 🙂
Sounds like an idea. Get really specific with your targets, make them just a little past what you think would be AWESOME and go for it.
2013 was pretty good.
In 2014, I want to continue to focus of me and my issues. I know that sound selfish but I need to continue to evolve.
I love it. If you can’t spend a year or two with the primary goal of evolving yourself, then what’s the point! Wishing you all the best for 2014 Pat! Thanks for your contributions around here in 2013.
My 2013 word of the year was adventure. Sadly, this never happened. But maybe it was just the wrong word for the wrong year. Despite having few certainties for next year, I feel a lot more positive about 2014 than I possibly should!
It’s very possible. Sometimes the ideas we have for the year go out the window. And sometimes the adventure is just a little smaller than we thought, or was hidden from our view. I can’t wait to see what 2014 holds for you. VERY exciting.