Tell her she’s dreamin’

You guys asked for it. Well, officially Tony did. He wanted to know more about my plan and where I see my blog heading now. I said I’d think about it and write a post if I could make it work. Then last week, you all said you’d like to hear more too. So. A post about where I hope to take this blog, what I want for myself from it and more. I’ve attempted to write this post a few times. I’ve struggled to be honest. I couldn’t quite put my finger on why it was difficult. Then it occurred to me.

In a lot of ways dreams are private, even dreams with plans attached to them, cleverly disguised beneath a business plan. It feels like exposing myself to be writing it here, to send it out there for it to be judged. For me, to be judged. Maybe you’ll question my motives. Maybe you will think of this as a commercial venture and it will take the personal love out of it. I hope against hope that that doesn’t happen.

Then I remembered some training I did once. And the lessons learned through long talks with my Dad. No one can succeed alone. Each person you share your dream with brings you one step closer to THE person that can make it happen. It gives power and reality to your dream. And so, in the interest of sharing, of putting my wishes and hopes and desires OUT THERE. Here we go. Hold me.

Where I see my blog is by the end of 2012.

  • Regularly delivering quality content that not only interests people but is of use to them through a minimum of 7 posts per week.
  • Cementing the position in a new marketplace through brand contacts and associations within plus size fashion, shoes, health and lifestyle.
  • A thriving interactive community of over 1,000 subscribers, 2,000 Facebook likes and 500 newsletter subscribers {recent addition}.
  • For this blog to be considered a resource by those who read it and for me to be asked to share that knowledge with their readers. Commercially.
  • To educate myself on what it means for me to live a healthy life and share that on the blog.

What I’m doing to get there. 

  • Posting twice daily as regularly as I can.
  • Reading three non-online articles a week and 5 online articles a day.
  • Working to improve the quality of the writing and photos within the posts. Studying, reading, asking lots.
  • Building the audience on my Facebook page and Pinterest accounts.
  • Taking advice when it’s offered and acting on it quickly. Like I did with the weekly newsletter. Even if it’s via a post made for everyone.
  • Participate and be available to the blogging community when I can be. To build relationships and to give back.
  • Sending weekly updates to brands I work with.
  • Contacting new brands and making them aware of the blog.
  • Streamlining my blog, it’s marketing kits and branding so it is recognisable across the board.

 

How I came up with this ‘plan’ is a little haphazard at the moment. Given the recent transition in my interests, leading the way to the shift in this blog I had to reassess some of my ideas of what success would look like. I’ve been adapting to what has been working and what hasn’t. I’ve asked so many people so many questions. I’m doing as much as I can while it’s still fun. Outfit photos, dressing up and funny little stories are fun to me. Stories of the gym and working out and pushing boundaries of what people think is more than fun, it’s what I’m doing with my life right now. My blog is a medium for that.

So it surviving, it being something. That matters to me. And that’s my dream.

13 responses to “Tell her she’s dreamin’”

  1. I like that you have a plan. At least you have one! I’m still faffing about discovering things accidentally! And too scared to approach brands, even though I have an idea floating around in my head… You have given me food for thought. Thank you

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      Melissa Walker Horn

      Thank you. I do plenty of faffing, let me tell YOU. Then when something works, in the plan it goes. Haha.

  2. I think I need a plan as well…. Hmmm….

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      Melissa Walker Horn

      Yes, you do! ;)

  3. Mel … this is brilliant. I’ve got my goals and dreams but I’m usually not one for sharing them. Not even with my husband. I know that’s crazy.

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      Melissa Walker Horn

      Thank you. And it’s not crazy. I think it’s natural to hold something so important close to us. Start by telling Mr SY. But maybe after finals weekend. ;)

  4. That’s awesome Mel, and the best part is, its not what you are “gunna” do, you have a full list of things you “are” doing to make it happen.

    I can’t believe how much you do, and get done, every day, they say hard work achieves anything, you will definitely achieve what you want because of how hard you work.
    I look forward to sharing your adventures
    Thanks for sharing :)

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      Melissa Walker Horn

      Thank you Tony. Absolutely. Turning it into reality here. ;)

      Naaaw, I do work hard, it’s a business for me and something I can envision saying to people one day, yes it’s my job and I LOVE IT. Every darn second of it. So thank you for the acknowledgement of that. xo

  5. In the time I’ve been a Suger Lover I’ve seen so much change and growth here. I’m so proud of you. I love being here, being part of the journey, your cheer squad……I feel inspired by association. I think that’s the thing there are so many things I’ve said to you about your personality or way of looking at things and approaching life that is much like my own, that makes me feel I can do it too.

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      Melissa Walker Horn

      Haha. Thank you Suger Lover. I get what you mean. I really do. you’ve got your plan. Just make sure you have the tiny steps to take every day worked out and then TAKE THEM. You’ll be there before you know it. :)

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    Melissa Walker Horn

    Thank you Lisa. It’s absolutely necessary to have the actions you will take to achieve any plan. Measurable goals with bite sized steps to get there. Rule #1!

    I’m glad you enjoy them! I enjoy putting them together, hanging out with Hubby taking the photos and sharing that idea, that fashion is fashion and it’ll never look the same. Funny you mention that, you need to search the site for the ‘Not looking Fatter than you are is Important’ post. You will enjoy it!

    And thanks for the newsletter plug! Glad you’re enjoying it.

  7. That is really impressive. And well done to you. I think your plan sounds doable and I bet you do make your dreams come true. Go for it.
    I just found your blog through Nikki’s links and I am glad I did. I fall right into your market (although much older, lol), love the brands you work with and many of my readers would be the same.
    I just read a post on ProBlogger (also linked to Styling You) about building a successful blog. And I agree with you, each of us have different measures for what a successful blog looks like. It is hard to define sometimes and is ever changing. Keep at it, I love to see people have goals and reach them. After blogging for a few years mine is a bit of a hobby only. And to achieve 7 posts a week, wow I am in awe.

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      Melissa Walker Horn

      Thank you Lilly. I’m glad you dropped over! I’m glad you’re enjoying my hand picked selection of fab things. It takes a lot to say no when some carrots get dangled, but what you said up there, that’s why I do! So thank you.

      Blogs ARE so personal and so different. There are so many ways that people have succeeded, so many ways that people blog, so many variables. You have to build a personalised plan. Or not.

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