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Shoot. Darn It. Bugger.

image by Jos {Hello Owl} – found on my iPad
I’ve just had a bit of a reality check. It is time to get back on the horse. Time to lay off the bad habits and foster some healthy ones. There was a man on ACA tonight that had lost over 100kg!! I mean seriously. If he can do that, I can stick to my healthy eating plan and training schedule. 
Can’t I?
These days I’m not so sure, you know. I start, I stop and I go again. Perhaps that is part of this weight loss bizo. This health and fitness caper. I wonder. It concerns me that no amount of visits to the Dr or unattractive photos {and believe me, after this weekend there are PLENTY of those} seem to make a difference to me hanging in there, sticking it out. 
And it is not just in relation to my weight. 
I think today I am having an across the board crises of confidence. I don’t know where else to start. With everything. You know. I am questioning everything at the moment. My choices, my ideas, my writing, my offering. And I miss my husband. And stuffed up the cookies. And you know, everything. 
Ugh, I hate days like this! Tell me you have days like this. 

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16 responses to “Shoot. Darn It. Bugger.”

  1. Alex aka WHOA MUMMA! Avatar
    Alex aka WHOA MUMMA!

    Every day at the moment.I have gone from FINALLY learning to like running (ugh that took some work) to being knocked back on my ass with morning sickness and watching my legs turn to marmalade again. Doh.I think you're gorgeous. I love being lazy but I know how awesome I feel when I feel fit and accomplished too.

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  2. Zoe Avatar
    Zoe

    Everyone has there down moments.. You will get back up and kick butt.. :)

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  3. Rhi @ Hummingbird's Song Avatar
    Rhi @ Hummingbird’s Song

    Sure do. It's OK lovely, you're fabulous. Take a deep breath, step back a bit and sleep on it. You'll feel better in the morning! xx

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  4. Dorothy Avatar
    Dorothy

    Yes, frequently. Go to sleep. Start again tomorrow. And stop beating yourself up.

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  5. Lauren Avatar
    Lauren

    Shit, I know that feeling all too well. The days where absolutely everything seems to go wrong, everyone appears to be cross with me, I feel alone and all I want to do is curl up in a ball and disapere for awhile, but most of the time its just me being a drama queen and after sitting down and writing a list/notes/pros & cons things always seem a little clearer and easier.And with the healthy food/excercise thing, they say it take 21 days to form a habit- so my only advice is one foot in front of the other- it will get easier eventually (says she who was ready to give up last week)Look after yourself sweet, have a good sleep tonight and hopefully the sun will be shining in the morning xx

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  6. Katie Avatar
    Katie

    Suger the most lovely lady I've ever not met. You are amazing and fabulous. Get some sleep, call your hubby. Wake up and spend some time in the sunshine. xxx

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  7. sharnee Avatar
    sharnee

    Everyone has shit days. You are awesome. It's all about the journey baby, not the destination.(god, I should be a POET)

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  8. Laura a.k.a rah Avatar
    Laura a.k.a rah

    Sleep ALWAYS clears shit up for me when I'm feeling mopey.You are brilliant, no ifs or buts about it(PS I gave up "dieting" last month and it was the best decision I ever made. To stop thinking "oh, I shouldn't eat that, I'm supposed to be on a diet" is life-changing xxx)

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  9. Danielle Avatar
    Danielle

    That is the work of Josceline. You can do it xx

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  10. Diminishing Lucy Avatar
    Diminishing Lucy

    Days like this? ALL the time…Chin up, rest up.xx

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  11. Amy xxoo Avatar
    Amy xxoo

    You bet your bum i have days like that! Sometimes i just wake up like that, and no amount of prettying up, playing with my son, or laughing with my fiance will make me feel any different. I call it a " funk " and when i'm in a funk i just have to escape into blogs, or a book or a movie and wait it out until bedtime, so i can sleep it off…

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  12. Sheri Bomb Avatar
    Sheri Bomb

    I had a week like this the other week. Twas hormonally influenced BUT I do occasionally have days like this – randomly, not seemingly caused by anything. Normally I feel better when I wake up the next morning but if not, I try not to dwell on what I'm feeling down about. I am always over-thinking things, which can sometimes get me to feeling this way. Try not to put so much pressure on yourself but if there are certain things about your life that you're unhappy with – make a plan of action to get happy! This always makes me feel so much better and being proactive about things usually gives me a better chance at success. Taking back the power and having some clear direction will make you feel more on top of things.Cheer up Charlie xo

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  13. Melissa Avatar
    Melissa

    I have days like that, sweetie. ALmost every one of them.My health issues (I'm insulin dependant) are such now that my Dr is strongly recommending I consider a gastric sleeve op. I want to talk about it, but don't know where to start. I want to blog about it but am scared of the reaction I'll get.I'm sorry you're feeling bad.

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  14. Madmother Avatar
    Madmother

    Ah my friend, sorry to have been absent of late, life got in the way.I am the queen of procastination. No matter how many times my GP mentions my extremely high cholesterol, my volatile blood pressure, my risk of yada, yada, yada… I still keep up the terrible habits. I have 2 kids, both of whom need me with every fibre of their being and yet I don't take the warnings seriously? So, yes. I get it. After all, you did see me inhale that pepperoni pizza at the meet…

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  15. Kelsbells Avatar
    Kelsbells

    I most definitely have days like this. I get angry at myself for having given up and let the bad habits creep in, but then I realise there's no point beating myself up on it. At some point you have to say "oh well", then start again. After all, recognising that you have had a bad day is a great start, and from there you just go back to doing it step-by-step to improve your life again. Chin up – you can do it!

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  16. Kimmie Avatar
    Kimmie

    Must be the weather ;]

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