I believe that being happy is a practice; a way of living that anyone can do. There are exceptions, of course, there always are, but for the most part, being happy takes practise. I was stalking the web, as I do, and I came across this post from over six months ago, and it made a list of 22 things happy people do differently. I loved it, sure I disagreed sometimes, but mostly, I loved it. It was a “practice makes perfect” guide to being a happier person. It got me thinking about what it is I would recommend being a happier person. A person who tends towards the lighter side of life. Someone who can find joy in a messy house and an impossible situation. What would I say are my top tips? So I did what Bloggers do, and I wrote this post so I could decide.
My top 5 tips to being a happier person are;
Let it go.
There are things, people, situations in this life that even if you were to go up against them every single day of the rest of your life they wouldn’t change. Do yourself a favour and accept that’s the way it is. It’s time for you to either move on or enjoy the good bits from the situation. They are the bits that have had you hang around this long.
Laugh with your mouth open.
For a long time, I’m not sure when it started, I would cover my mouth when I laughed. Or do a sort of closed-mouth chuckle. It was weird. Someone asked me about it one day, and I said I didn’t know why I did it, but I assumed it was to stifle my rather loud laugh. Why the hell would you want to do that, they said? Why indeed. Laugh with your head back and your mouth open, it makes the funny things better.
Get MORE sleep.
Lots of it, as much as you can. It is SO much easier to be happy when you’ve had enough sleep to function as a human being does. This could mean going to bed an hour earlier, grabbing an afternoon power nap or enjoying long lazy mornings. Whatever, get more sleep! And I hear you, sometimes that’s not possible. Try the power nap. It works a charm.
Be nice to people.
I find that when I’m out there a nice person, I feel better about myself. And I’m not talking the nice that sees you walked all over and leaves you feeling bad. I mean the nice that has you use your manners, exercise patience and be generous with your opinion of others. Even if the only kick you get deep down is what a wonderful person you are, it’s worth a giggle.
Sometimes your happy can be tied to a particular situation. There might be something going on, and all you can do is feel bad about it. It sucks the happy right out of you. These times are tricky, and sometimes all it takes to express that blah feeling. It could be having a conversation you’ve been putting off to resolve the situation, or it could be telling a friend about it. Either way, you’ll find communicating and expressing yourself is a great way to restore happiness in your life.
That’s my list! THE things I think will make a difference in your practice of being happy. Or happier as the case may be. By no means a definitive list but it should get you started.
Now I have some questions for you, what do you think makes a happy person happy? Do you think it takes practice? Or is the ‘happy gene’ something people are born with?
Hi! I’m Suger; Chief Blogger at Suger Coat It. Blogging since 1901; love a casual ootd, taking photos + writing about things that irk or inspire me. I love wine and cheese, long days in the sun at the beach and spending time with my family. I make stuff for the internet. Which means I take photos, create content, write copy and devise social media plans for personal brands, small businesses and bloggers. You know, living the sweet life.