Infertile/Broken Hearted? We’ll exploit YOU!

I read this article. It’s about the scare tactics and emotional poking at wounds that occurs in advertising fertility clinics. The author states that advertising is designed to be emotive, that is advertising’s purpose after all. To emote and therefore drive action. We all know this. But questions is it okay to use emotions in such an emotional area?

The author references a fertility clinic who has created a television ad around a women delivery a baby. The clinic felt that it may offend some people because it depicted the ‘messiness of birth’. The author said that to her  “the offensive element was using footage of a tearful, emotional mother to pluck at the heart strings of would-be clients in the hope that it would tip them towards trying for a baby”.  
There is an ad that was {might still be} on radio in Brisbane. It was always on during peak hour when I was trapped in the car. It was for a fertility clinic and it was a psst, we’re pregnant, oh my, thank you that place. Results, results, wish you were me, etc etc type ad. No overly offensive but some days it would catch me off guard and I would cry.

In. The. CAR. 

Now THAT can’t be good for business. On those days I hated them. I hated them and the cheery radio voice. I hated the traffic and the radio station. Not once did I consider using their services. I knew they were manipulating me. And I resented them for it. It made them appear calculating and cold to me. Like they didn’t get what people go through at all. Not the sort of thing you are looking for in a fertility clinic. 

I’d been quietly feeling this for a while. This is an issue that pushes ALL my buttons. But would I feel the same way if I had had a baby quickly and without ever having to consider alternative options. I don’t know. I like to think that I would still find these ads offensive. I’d like to think I’d care.

I hate the accident road death and party fight ads. I can’t help but think, what if I’d lost my partner, brother, father {insert other significant person here} in a car accident or violent incident? Do I really need to see this pop up during prime time TV to mess with my head and wreck my night. Will that assist more people than it impacts badly?

For me, I hate ads of this type. I resent them. I’ve never once driven slower because I saw an ad that said I should. I drive slow in built up areas because it’s the right thing to do. I will choose a fertility clinic based on personal references and gut feeling. So it doesn’t make sense to me.

Maybe this isn’t the case for everyone. Because if these ads don’t work, why would they use them? So tell me your thoughts. I’d love to hear your point of view on this. Tell me. I’m interested. 

8 responses to “Infertile/Broken Hearted? We’ll exploit YOU!”

  1. Hmmm this is an interesting one. While advertising is intended to evoke emotions in consumers and therefore provoke action, I think there is a different between subtle exploitation (wanting to keep up with the Jones' for example) and extreme emotional exploitation (such as the fertility ads). They are quite insensitive, especially to those they are targeting which is not only cruel but an extremely expensive, counterproductive and downright stupid exercise.That being said, I'm not sure I agree about the crash ads etc. They use shock tactics to try and get a very worthy message across. Yes they may be difficult to watch for those who have experienced it first hand but I don't think they should be stopped. As painful as it may be, I think if I had ever lost someone close to me I would hope that those ads would reach at least one person and save a life, preventing their family from ever having to go through the same pain.I think it is no different to campaigns for child abuse foundations who show dark and suggestive re-enactments or breast cancer charities who use shocking statistics or upsetting visuals of very sick cancer patients to inspire action in the community. Anyone who has experienced these things first hand would, I'm sure, find those ads difficult to watch but I don't believe they should be stopped as I think the possibility for positive far outweighs the possible negatives.But that's just me :)

  2. Having worked in the industry I really do love advertising, but it's a devious double edged sword isn't it? No one wants to be left feeling manipulated or traumatised but I have to agree with Sheri in regards to the drive safetly adverts. I am sorry that those radio ads left you in tears – I guess they only achieved half of thier objective. What has pissed me off lately is the Commonwealth Bank's 100 Years advertising campaign, showing images of war with the claim 'we were there for you' Excuse me?? How dare they would co opt this?hugs xx

  3. Ugh. You've just pointed out the reason why I listen to NO commercial radio any more. Not in the past 6 years. My reality:bullshit level readings made me do it!I have to say, I agree with you wholeheartedly Melissa. All those ad's make me do is bleed a bit more for any families who might be driving somewhere at the time or watching tv to try and escape their horrific reality… and have an ad that smacks them square in the face with what they are dealing with. But my perspective has been skewed for the past 7 years on this – I've all but removed any advertising from the house, including tv! (we record everything and skip them)

  4. Oh Mel, I agree entirely. The ads never got anyone pregnant, and that alone used to shit me to tears.The only emotive ads that I "agree" with are the give up smoking ones. They work, for me. (But even then, I that opens a whole other can of worms with regard to a governement who earns $$ from a habit that kills, as well as funding advertising to try and stop it. That is fucked.)You give good blog baby…xx

  5. This is an interesting one. I know the tv fertility ad your talking about and, to me, its beautiful. Thats because i'm lucky enough to not have to need a fertility service, and all i see is a realistic depiction of a beautiful event. If i were in your shoes ( and those of 1000's of other women ) i'm sure i'd feel differently…And i, like the others, dont see a big problem with the road crash/smoking type ads. Yes they may be painful reminders for those who have suffered a road trauma or lost a loved one to cancer, but the ad is not aimed at those people. Its aimed at those who need to stop their negative behaviours ( drink driving, smoking etc )…

  6. The accident/ fight ads are probably designed to shock people into NOT behaving that way, but I can't see that they've ever worked. I haven't ever seen any infertility ads, perhaps I'm just not paying attention? I do watch a lot of dvd's instead of TV.

  7. Everytime that damm commercial comes on the radio I think of you guys. I know how they can catch you and bring you to tears. There were some that just sent me to shut down the first mothers day after we lost Aaron.Even now they sometimes get me, there is one that I wish would disapear for the sake of my Mum. Many that I think bloody hell how will this one hurt someone. It's not just ads, it's so often words from those we know. For Sam it's ambulances. The baby ads won't go away hon,it's right that you should put this out there. If you ever want someone that I know personally has a huge and loving heart look up Sue Lester. sending hugs!lisa

  8. I think emotional blackmail in any guise is disgusting

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