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Day Fail

Today was one of thooooose days. I feel like a total fail. You know. 
Things have not gone well. I actually just bawled at one stage. Not a cute little cry, a big fat one. I feel fragile and isolated. It’s difficult after the high of the weekend. I am trying to get some things off the ground. They aren’t going and are definitely not moving as quickly as I had planned. Done deals are all of a sudden in question. And I found out that there is someone talking against me. Someone I don’t even know. It’s ridiculous.   
But there is nothing to do but pull up my socks and do my thing. Put things in order and do what I know to do to get what I want. I’m assuming that my reaction is at least a small bit hormonal. But I feel the familiar stab of self doubt. Something I give very little space in my life anymore, for my own sanity mainly. So on days like this I need to remind myself of all I have and where I am going. And what IS important.
Better luck tomorrow, right!?     

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20 responses to “Day Fail”

  1. Kimmie Avatar
    Kimmie

    Hugsxxx

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  2. Megan Leslianne Avatar
    Megan Leslianne

    I know it's a common saying, but that's because it's true: people talk poorly of others because they're jealous. Even if only a teeny, tiny little bit. Negative people choose to live their lives negatively, and the trade-in for that is that they're perpetually unhappy. Don't let unhappy people bring you down to their level. Ignore. Even if rumours are spreading like wildfire, just ignore. All that matters is that you know you're doing the right thing for your life and not hurting others in the process (yeah, I got that one from my mum. cheers, mum!).

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  3. Natalie Avatar
    Natalie

    I too am having one of those days. I didn't even touch a thing in my intray at the office. I snapped at the boss because he wouldn't listen when I was explaining the coatings of some new parts. I got an unexpected bill and I am beyond exhausted. I don't know who could be talking against you. They're obviously jealouse because your an amazing person doing amazing things. Haters are going to hate on the successful ones. Don't doubt yourself! Not for one second because I would be grateful if I could be half as talented as you. Your a pretty amazing friend xx

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  4. stinkb0mb Avatar
    stinkb0mb

    ignore the haters. they will always be there in some form, sometimes they stay quiet, other times they are vocal, too vocal, either way, give them no oxygen.YOU know you can do what you set out to achieve, as do many others and that is ALL that matters.damn the man and then show him how freakin fabulous you are by proving him wrong ;-)xxxx

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  5. River Avatar
    River

    Hormones and self-doubt often go hand-in-hand. Tomorrow will be better. Possibly your body is still adjusting to the much less sugar intake.

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  6. Mrs BC Avatar
    Mrs BC

    Be kind to yourself – have a cup of tea, sit on the couch in your pjs & watch a favourite movie. That's what I'm doing after a bitch of a day. People talking shit allways seem to get you when you're down but just ignore them – after all, what can you expect from a pig, but a grunt.Smile, beautiful :)xxbtw did you notice that Sherri Bomb has given you an award? Congratulations!! xx

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  7. Katie Avatar
    Katie

    Dislike : ( People like that annoy me, why they do it, I don't get it, especially to someone as lovely as you Suger. Hope you wake up tomorrow feeling better. Sometimes a cry is just what you need and them you can move forward. Hugs xx

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  8. Sarah Avatar
    Sarah

    Bloody hormones. I find a cry does good at rebalancing those damn hormonal fluctuations.Boo to anybody talking badly about you. Hugs to you and yes to tomorrow being a better day xx

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  9. Kathryn Avatar
    Kathryn

    Much love to you, sending you lots of virtual hugs.I hope tomorrow is a better day! Lots of love xxx

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  10. Andrea Avatar
    Andrea

    F*** them – if thet can't say it to your face its not worth your time of day! The other stuff will sort itself out. A good bawl is cleansing let it all out! I bet you feel ten feet tall tomorrow!

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  11. A Keeper Avatar
    A Keeper

    Don't be too hard on yourself. We all have crappy days. My eldest daughter had one of those days and just bawled her eyes out non-stop when I picked her up because her sister wouldn't give her a hug.Unfortunately, when you get really high and have a lot of good going on in your life, it feels like any fall down is a long one.Keep smiling, you're beautiful and screw anyone who says anyone. They are just jealous.

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  12. katsicles Avatar
    katsicles

    We all have those days (sometimes consecutively) but all you can do is give yourself some space to moan it out before picking yourself up, dusting yourself off and trying again.You're doing so well, don't ever doubt yourself, just think of how far you've come, you are capable of amazing things!p.s – I like Mrs BC's comment about what to expect from pigs lol. Think I'll share that one around :)

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  13. Toni Avatar
    Toni

    Hope you have a better day tomorrow, chook. Bad days suck. XX

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  14. Maxabella Avatar
    Maxabella

    Thanks for sharing, Mel. I needed to have a big fat bawl today too, but I forgot we were allowed. I might just go and do that now. I had one of those days too and it was really sucky.I hope you sleep well tonight (I always do after a big cry, don't you?) and tomorrow feels a bit brighter and life more do-able. People only try to bring you down to their own level, you know that right? x

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  15. Leila {Emerald City Girl} Avatar
    Leila {Emerald City Girl}

    Ahh those days are so draining, I hope you are already feeling better. Don't worry about the haters, they will always exist, we just need to learn how to best ignore them. You are wonderful and fabulous and the haters are jealous (as they usually are).I hope your week gets brighter and better!! xx

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  16. wait until the sunset Avatar
    wait until the sunset

    oh thats horrible! What is with people and useless bitching!! Don't even take notice! And just think about what a fabulous time we will have on Sunday!! :) x

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  17. Rhi @ Hummingbird's Song Avatar
    Rhi @ Hummingbird’s Song

    Oh love. It's OK, we all have days like that. Today is a new one, and hopefully you're feeling more positive after a night's sleep. Ignore the other, they have a huge case of the green eyed monster! Luff you xx

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  18. Dorothy Avatar
    Dorothy

    I go to bed nearly every night hoping that tomorrow will be a better day. I just wish I knew how to stop blaming myself for everything that doesn't go my way.You have at least made me happy with my new look blog! That has to count for something?

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  19. Lisa Chiodo Avatar
    Lisa Chiodo

    When you play big games…. like you said shake it off, have a cry, and refocus. I see what you're up to, the sites are looking fantastic! I had an online tiff with a fb friend who persists in the use of the "R" word. Oh and I dropped my car keys in the toilet this morning…. hang on they were Sam's keys so that's ok!!!ciao bellalisa xx

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  20. Amanda Avatar
    Amanda

    You poor thing! I hate days like that! I wouldn't be surprised at all though if you are extra emotional due to the Sugar detox you are doing. When I was coming of drinking large amounts of soft drink, I was teary and irritable and just all over the place emotionally. Its not fun at all. I hope you are feeling better now!

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