What if you don’t know what you want?

What if you don’t know what you want?

He asked me to catch up in a cafe. I’d been working for his family for years at this point, and he wanted to know more. More about me and my life. Where did I see myself in five years? What was it that I wanted for myself and my life? I know now that what he...
What could you be doing instead?

What could you be doing instead?

I want to talk about something with you. It’s about the way that women invest so much energy into controlling our bodies. You know the story; food, dieting, exercises, surgeries and all that beauty standards b.s. Patriarchy, blah, blah, blah. At this time of...
How to wind down after a busy week

How to wind down after a busy week

As you may know, I started this week embraced by the sunshine and rolling in the waves. I did that because I knew the week ahead was going to be a busy one. It was a preparation for the storm; a recharge of my batteries. So, with lists and plans, I powered through...
Dry July 2019; Let’s do this.

Dry July 2019; Let’s do this.

Firstly, this post was supposed to be finished yesterday. I took a nap instead. Kel wasn’t well over the weekend, some sort of cold situation which I appear to have picked up. I feel off, a little ick, but not enough to warrant a day in bed. You know? Anyway,...